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My Hall Pass Lovers

I know you have a hall pass list. Don’t lie.

Everyone has one! It’s human nature.

I’m not suggesting every woman has a laminated list in her wallet ready to shove in her boyfriend’s face in case Ryan Gosling shows up at her local coffee shop.


Hey Bae | Image Credit: Marie Claire

But certainly, whether consciously or subconsciously, everyone has an idea as to who they would have a free pass at without repercussions.

And don’t think I don’t know that the Husband would drop me in a heart beat for Téa Leoni following the Bad Boys days, and Megan Fox – cause Megan Fox.

So I feel no guilt about telling you about the other men in my life, especially since the first one is practically the Husband himself – but, like, British.

Henry Golding

This is not the first time that Henry has featured in this blog – he was also at my Fantasy Party, making dumplings in my pimp kitchen.

But this English Malaysian actor had me at ‘Crazy Rich Asians’ and frankly, it doesn’t get any better than that for me.

Plus, I’m not kidding when I say he looks just like the Husband…

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Hall Pass V.S. The Husband | Image Credit: Independent

His British accent and suave ways make McAsianDreamy firmly in the top three of my Hall Pass Lovers.

Let’s all give Henry a warm welcome to the list.

Sam Heughan

Sam is a relative new comer to the list and he’s as much a surprise to me as he is to you.

All I have to say on that subject is – Outlander.


Sam Heughan as Jamie Fraser, Outlander | Image Credit: Variety

I started watching Outlander a few months ago and it’s not hard to see why it’s such a popular show.

Obviously, it’s due to the sexy Scotsman with his gorgeous accent and strong man-arms. He’s the man you want to travel the Scottish highlands and cause trouble with, you know?

This put Sam on the list almost immediately, pushing Ryan Reynolds off.

Sorry Ry!

Joel Kinnaman

Joel, Joey, Jo… Man oh man, would I bed him in every which way.


My main man, Joel Kinnaman | Image Credit: IMDb

I was first hooked on this sexy Swedish specimen, the fine Mr Joel Kinnaman, during The Killing – a fantastic show if you can get past the first three episodes, which are absolutely miserable with sadness.

And I know.

I know in that show he looks like a bit of a junkie.

But I couldn’t help myself! The more I watched the show, the more I was watching him. And then I just had to watch Season One of Altered Carbon where he somehow became sexier.

And since we’re giving suggestions, don’t watch him in the latest RoboCop. That almost simultaneously killed my love for both him and that entire movie franchise.

Ladies’ Choice

I put up a question on my Instagram asking the people who they would have on their hall pass list and there was one guy who was voted a number of times, so I felt he deserved a seat at the table. Maybe not mine, but certainly there are a few other tables that would gladly have him.

Drum roll please…..


Gerard Butler | Credit Image: Architectural Digest

That’s right, Gerard Butler is the winner and another sexy Scotsman gracing our dreams.

On that note, thanks for reading along dear reader and tell me – do you have a hall pass list and if so, who’s on it?

Happy Hall Pass hunting and remember – don’t be a dick!

Love, always,


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